Other [Sad] Status with my nana

.jpg · July 27, 2015

Well....How do I start?

About 6 months ago, my grandma was diagnosed with cancer.

At first, we thought it was lung cancer because of her heavy smoking habits..but her lungs were perfectly healthy, the cancer was in her liver.

Because of this, it has made me depressed on the inside, you may not detect it when you talk to me or look at me, but I am sad.

But, I have been depressed all my life. Mainly because of my mum.

It all started when my mum took me away from my father, saying she was taking me to the "shops"

When I started talking, she lied to me about my history and my father, saying that he abused me and attacked her...making her flee with me.

I could tell she was lying seeming I can remember her taking me away from my father.

Later in my life she drank a lot and smoked 24/7, I wanted to see what smoking was and I took one and tried blowing out, nothing....when I sucked it I spewed, luckily I learned smoking was bad as soon as possible.

Did I mention she used to bring strangers to the house, drunk...Scared the living shit out of me telling me there was ghosts everywhere....I was going to follow in her footsteps If something wasn't going to change, one night...I saw a shooting star and I wished "I want to live with my dad" Believe it or not, one month later My father started a custody trial to get me to live with with him. He won...I went by plane, and never looked back.

As of today, my mother still smokes, gets drunk, forgets my birthday and does not generally give a flying f**k about me, which I don't either. The way she treated me, my father, my step-mother and my other family members, she should learn like she should of done the first year of my life.

Any more questions about my life I can answer, seeming me writing this made my chest clear.

Rvix_ · July 27, 2015

Man, that's crazy. I'm glad and I'm sure everyone in this forum is happy that you are okay.

.jpg · July 27, 2015

Yeah, I'm okay...I'm just lucky I'm living with my dad.

I have friends, I'm not that depressed, I normally do sports to get my mind off somethings.

_Trickster_ · July 27, 2015

This may seem stone cold of me but why go to a cheating forum for iOS to share this i don't believe this story

PS let the hate come in

.jpg · July 27, 2015

I don't know what other forum to share this on.

I don't want to share it on Facebook, my friends will bully me.

And I am only part of cheating forums with no one that I know.

Svensken · July 27, 2015

I'm happy for you, in sweden we have a saying, if youre a strong person in rough conditions youre a Maskrosbarn, that you are

Rook · July 27, 2015

So everything is okay with your dad now?

Why would your mother do these things?

.jpg · July 27, 2015

On 7/27/2015 at 9:10 AM, DiDA said:

So everything is okay with your dad now?

Why would your mother do these things?

It's not her, it's the habits.

She has a heavy drinking habit and smoking one, I forgot to mention she "escaped" from a rehab centre.

Also, my dad is the one that knew these bad things were happening to me, thus starting the case for custody.

Rook · July 27, 2015

On 7/27/2015 at 9:40 AM, thejordan1221 said:

It's not her, it's the habits.

She has a heavy drinking habit and smoking one, I forgot to mention she "escaped" from a rehab centre.

Also, my dad is the one that knew these bad things were happening to me, thus starting the case for custody.

What about you?

Are you okay staying with your dad?

pwxown · July 27, 2015

On 7/27/2015 at 9:40 AM, thejordan1221 said:

It's not her, it's the habits.

She has a heavy drinking habit and smoking one, I forgot to mention she "escaped" from a rehab centre.

Also, my dad is the one that knew these bad things were happening to me, thus starting the case for custody.

escaped *call police*